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How to Survive Spring Break and the Holidays with Addiction

The holidays can be an enjoyable time for most, but for those battling addiction, these days can be very stressful. Many fight anxieties that stem from personal experiences, family drama and social interactions involving substances that are personal demons.

By Kari Mackneer, Clinical Director, Clean Recovery Centers

Getting a grip on how to handle the holidays with addiction is a must in the process of recovery. Here are some tips:

 

Have Sober Steps in Place

Develop a plan to protect your sobriety ahead of any holiday event and activity that could potentially trigger a relapse. This may mean going to a 12-step meeting before or after the event, attending festivities with your sponsor or a sober friend, or making sure you can leave at any time and are not dependent on someone else for transportation.

 

Know Your HALT Triggers

Addicts should know their triggers for relapse and how to manage them. The most common triggers correspond to the acronym HALT — when you feel Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired.

 

Have Prepared Responses for Family

If you know that your family is going to be asking lots of uncomfortable questions, practice some appropriate answers. Also, don’t feel obligated to discuss any aspect of your recovery that you’re not comfortable discussing.

If your family is overly focused on achievement or likes to bring up stories from the past that are triggering or shameful, rehearse your reactions to them. If you have a friend or significant someone who can help, do a little role-playing, trying out different answers to see how it feels as you actually say them out loud.

 

Release Your Resentments

“Resentment” has been described as allowing a person you dislike to live in your head, rent-free. Resentments that gain steam during the holidays can be disastrous for anyone, especially recovering people. Discuss this with support groups and friends to truly conquer these resentments going forward.

 

Focus on Your Success

This might sound obvious, but many family members neglect to tend to themselves when loved ones are in crisis. We want to do all we can to help them through it, even if it means taking verbal abuse or having a blowup at a family gathering or celebration.

 

Reach Out to Your Support Groups

Your groups of friends, family members and fellow addicts are there to help you talk yourself through situations such as these. Don’t bottle up anxieties – confront them head first.

 

Struggling? Clean Recovery Centers Can Help.

Clean Recovery Centers is a unique, comprehensive treatment center for drug and alcohol abuse. We focus on providing a recovery that increases the well-being of the patient both mentally and physically. Contact the Clean Team for more information about our programs.

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